The good that came from being apart
Let’s be honest. Long distance relationships are tough. You can’t just meet up after work, plan last-minute trips or give a quick hug when one of you has a bad day. Watching couples around you enjoy those simple moments can make the distance feel even heavier.
But even though it's hard, I’ve found there’s still a lot to be thankful for. I like to look for the good in any situation, and this one is no different. So here are ten reasons why I truly appreciate being in a long distance relationship.
1. Trust becomes something solid
In any relationship, trust matters. When you are miles apart, it becomes the backbone of everything. You rely on each other in a deeper way because there’s no option to check in physically. You learn to believe in each other and that creates something strong.
2. Exploring a whole new country is exciting
Before I met my boyfriend, I had never been to England. It was always on my list, but love gave me a reason to finally go. Exploring a new place while also seeing it through his world made every trip feel like a special adventure.
3. Watching your partner discover your world is even better
There is something amazing about showing someone the places and things that shaped you. Watching my partner try foods I grew up with or visit places that mean something to me is a feeling that’s hard to describe. It makes the familiar feel new again.
4. You get more creative than you ever expected
Being far apart forces you to think outside the box. You get creative with virtual date nights, little surprises, or even collaborative playlists. One of our favorites was building a custom music mix and listening to it together during a call. The challenge of making things feel special despite the distance is actually pretty fun.
5. Communication improves in the best way
You cannot just sit in silence and wait for things to pass. You have to talk. When there’s confusion or a disagreement, the only way forward is through clear and honest conversation. You learn to really listen and express your feelings with care.
6. You grow as your own person
Being apart means you spend more time with yourself. That might sound lonely at first, but it creates space to grow. I started doing things I never would have tried otherwise. For example, I began dancing as an adult. It became something that was just mine, and I loved it.
7. The moment you reunite feels like a dream
When you finally see each other again, everything feels more intense. The hugs last longer. The conversations go deeper. The time together feels more precious. The build-up makes it unforgettable.
8. Small moments feel like big ones
A good morning message. A surprise call during a busy day. A shared meme that makes you both laugh. These tiny things feel huge when distance is part of the equation. You hold on to them because they mean something real.
9. Trust becomes something you live, not just say
It’s easy to talk about trust when you see each other all the time. But in a long distance relationship, you actually live it. You give each other freedom without fear. You’re honest because you want to be, not because someone’s watching. That quiet confidence in each other makes the relationship feel strong and real.
10. You are building toward something together
Even with all the distance, you both know where this is going. You are working toward a future where you are in the same place. The shared vision keeps you connected and gives purpose to the wait.
Being far apart is not what most people would want, but it has brought out strengths I didn’t know I had. It has made our relationship deeper, more intentional and more meaningful. And for that, I’m grateful.
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